A BBQ can be a great place to connect especially if you are an introvert. Reach out to others by asking non-threatening “ignitor” questions like:
– What is your area of expertise?
– Do you have any pets?
– What are their names?
– Tell me about your hobbies.
– Have you lived here all your life?
– How’d you meet your Significant Other?
– Who is your favorite Entertainer?
– Favorite sports team’s?
– Where is your most beautiful place?
Non-threatening questions can start a conversation flowing. Stay away from political, religious or other hot button topics that can create friction and end conversations before they really get a chance to start.
By Damian Birkel
A three time Nationally Career Counselor, a HarperCollins Leadership Author and the Founder of the nonprofit Professionals In Transition®; which is one of the oldest nonprofit organisations in America dedicated exclusively to helping the unemployed and the unemployed since 1992.